All Quiz Questions

Browse the private compatibility questions you will explore together. Each partner answers separately, and only mutual matches are ever revealed. Take the couples compatibility test.

Sparks & Embers

Lighting the Fire

1. I'd like your partner to initiate sex more often
2. I want to try mutual masturbation with your partner
3. I'd like your partner to whisper what they want to do to me
4. I'd like to send/receive sexy texts or photos with your partner
5. I want to try having sex with the lights fully on with your partner
6. I want your partner to talk dirty to me during sex
7. I'd like to receive oral sex from your partner
8. I'd like to give your partner oral sex

Alter Egos

Who Do You Want to Be?

1. I'd like to role-play a boss/secretary scenario with your partner
2. I'd like to pretend we're meeting for the first time at a bar with your partner
3. I'd like your partner and me to act out a scene from a movie or book
4. I'd like to role-play a teacher/student scenario with your partner
5. I'd like to role-play a stranger pickup scenario with your partner
6. I'd like your partner to dress up in a sexy costume for me
7. I'd like to role-play as celebrities or fictional characters with your partner
8. I'd like to role-play a massage therapist/client scenario with your partner

The Back Door

Exploring New Terrain

1. I'd like your partner to perform rimming (oral-anal) on me
2. I'd like to perform rimming on your partner
3. I'd like your partner to use a finger during anal play on me
4. I'd like to try a butt plug during sex with your partner
5. I'd like to try anal sex with your partner (me receiving)
6. I'd like to try anal sex with your partner (me giving)

The Pretzel Files

Twist, Turn, Connect

1. I'd like to try prone bone with your partner
2. I'd like to try face-sitting with your partner
3. I'd like to try the pretzel position with your partner
4. I'd like your partner on top (cowgirl/cowboy)
5. I'd like to try 69 with your partner
6. I'd like your partner to pin me against the wall during sex
7. I'd like to try the lotus position with your partner (sitting face to face)
8. Would you enjoy trying new positions together? 🤸

Power Exchange

Give & Take Control

1. I'd like to be dominated by your partner in bed
2. I'd like to dominate your partner in bed
3. I'd like to call your partner Sir/Daddy/Master/Mistress in bed
4. I'd like to be teased and denied orgasm by your partner
5. I'd like your partner to blindfold me during sex
6. I'd like your partner to spank me
7. I'd like to spank your partner
8. I'd like your partner to choke me lightly during sex

Time & Place

When the Mood Strikes

1. I'd like to have sex with your partner more often than we currently do
2. I'd like to try pool or hot tub sex with your partner
3. I'd like to have sex with your partner in front of a mirror
4. I'd like to have more quickies with your partner
5. I'd like to film ourselves having sex with your partner (for our eyes only)
6. I'd like to watch porn together with your partner
7. I'd like to have sex with your partner outdoors (nature, balcony, etc.)
8. I'd like to try having sex with your partner in a semi-public place (risk of being caught)

Toy Chest

Open the Box

1. I'd like to use a vibrator during sex with your partner
2. I'd like to go sex toy shopping together with your partner
3. I'd like to try a cock ring during sex with your partner
4. I'd like to try a remote-controlled vibrator with your partner (in public or at home)
5. I'd like to try bondage accessories (cuffs, blindfold set, etc.) with your partner
6. I'd like to use massage oils or edible body products with your partner
7. I'd like to try a couples' vibrator during penetration with your partner

Skin Deep

The Canvas of Desire

1. I'd like your partner to wear sexy underwear/lingerie for me
2. I'd like to wear sexy underwear/lingerie for your partner
3. I find body piercings attractive and would like your partner to get one
4. I'd like to try body painting or writing on each other with your partner
5. I'd like your partner to wear something specific that turns me on (heels, stockings, tie, etc.)
6. I'd like to explore food play with your partner (whipped cream, chocolate, etc.)

The Open Door

Beyond Just Us Two

1. I'd be interested in a threesome with your partner and another person
2. I'd be interested in watching your partner with someone else
3. I'd be interested in your partner watching me with someone else
4. I'd be interested in a group sex experience with your partner
5. I'd be interested in swapping partners with another couple with your partner
6. I'd be interested in a hall pass (one-time allowance) arrangement with your partner

Nipple Nirvana

Peaks of Pleasure

1. I'd like your partner to gently play with my nipples during foreplay
2. I'd like to use ice or temperature play on your partner's nipples
3. I'd like to gently play with your partner's nipples during foreplay
4. I'd like your partner to chew/nibble on my nipples
5. I'd like your partner to suck on my nipples
6. I'd like your partner to pinch my nipples during sex

The Connection

What Matters Most

1. How important is sex in your relationship?
2. How important is foreplay to you?
3. How important is emotional connection during sex to you?
4. How important do you think trying new things is for your partner?
5. How important is physical affection (non-sexual) to you?
6. How important is sexual variety to you?

Partner Report Card

Honest Feedback

1. How is your partner at oral sex?
2. How is your partner at foreplay?
3. How is your partner at communicating what they want?
4. How is your partner at being adventurous in bed?
5. How is your partner at reading your body language?
6. How is your partner at aftercare/post-sex affection?

The Wish List

What's Next?

1. I wish your partner and I would try new positions more often
2. I wish your partner and I would try new toys together
3. I wish your partner and I would explore more role-play scenarios
4. I wish we had more spontaneous sex
5. I wish we talked more openly about our fantasies
6. I wish we explored more sensual/romantic intimacy