Sync Desires is an intimacy quiz for couples who want to learn what they both want without the awkwardness of guessing or the risk of asking out loud first. Each partner answers on their own, and the results only show the things you both said yes to.
That small design choice changes the whole experience. Nobody is put on the spot, nobody sees an answer their partner chose not to share, and what you end up with is a short list of things you already agree on. It is a gentle, private place to start a conversation you may have been putting off.
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How the intimacy quiz for couples works
One partner starts a session and shares a private link with the other. You each answer the same set of questions separately, on your own phones or on one phone with a hand-off screen after the first partner finishes. When both of you are done, Sync Desires compares your answers and reveals only the mutual yes matches.
If one of you says yes and the other says no, that question simply does not appear in the results. There is no list of mismatches and no way to see what your partner turned down. The goal is to surface shared interest, not to keep score.
- Answer separately, at your own pace
- Only mutual yes answers are revealed
- Play on two phones, or one phone with a hand-off screen
- Free to take, with a free preview of your results
What the 89 questions cover
The full quiz has 89 questions across 13 categories, grouped into three levels so you can see at a glance how far each section goes. Many couples find the Gentle categories alone give them plenty to talk about.
You never have to take everything. Choose a quiz mode or pick the categories you want yourselves, and the quiz only asks those questions.
- Gentle: Sparks, Connection, Wishlist, Report Card, Time and Place, Skin Deep
- Adventurous: Alter Egos (role play), Positions, Toy Chest, Nipple Play
- Wild: Power Exchange, The Back Door, The Open Door
Pick a mode that fits your relationship
Quiz modes give you a sensible starting set of categories for where you are right now. Each mode also adds a short guide to your results, with ideas for how to use what you found.
If none of the modes fit, choose categories one by one. You can also add up to 10 questions of your own for $4.99, which is useful for the topics that matter most to the two of you.
Not sure where to begin? Gentle start is a comfortable first round for most couples. You can always come back later and take the categories you skipped.
- Full: every category
- Gentle start: a softer introduction
- Reconnecting: for couples finding their way back to each other
- New relationship: for learning each other early on
- Long-distance: for couples who spend time apart
- Adventurous: explores further but skips the wildest categories
Your results, privacy and pricing
Taking the quiz is free. The free preview shows how many matches you have in every category, plus every match in the first category, so you can see whether the full results are worth it to you before paying anything.
Full results cost $24.99. Premium costs $149 and adds a per-question breakdown when both partners agree to share answers. If you come back for a retest six months later, returning couples get 30% off. Answers are encrypted, and you can request deletion at any time. You can see what a finished report looks like on the sample report page before you start.
How to talk about your matches
A match is an invitation to talk, never consent. Seeing a shared yes on a screen tells you there is mutual curiosity; it does not mean either of you has agreed to anything specific, on any particular night.
Pick a relaxed moment to read your results together, away from the bedroom if that feels easier. Start with the matches that feel exciting to both of you, ask open questions about what each one means to your partner, and agree that anyone can say not yet or not anymore at any point. Go at the pace of whoever wants to go slower.
- Read results together when you are both relaxed
- Ask what a match means to your partner before assuming
- Treat every match as a conversation, not a commitment
- Either of you can change your mind at any time
Frequently asked questions
Will my partner see the questions I said no to?
No. Results only show questions you both said yes to. If you said no and your partner said yes, or the other way round, that question does not appear in the results.
Is the intimacy quiz free?
Taking the quiz is free, and so is the preview, which shows your match counts for every category and every match in the first category. Full results are $24.99, and Premium is $149 and adds a per-question breakdown when both partners agree to share answers.
Do we need two phones?
No. You can each use your own phone with a shared link, or play on one phone. After the first partner finishes, a hand-off screen lets the second partner take over without seeing the first partner's answers.
Can we skip categories we are not comfortable with?
Yes. Choose a quiz mode such as Gentle start or Reconnecting, or pick the categories you want yourselves. The quiz only asks questions from the categories you choose.
How is our data protected?
Answers are encrypted, and you can request deletion at any time.